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Friday, October 30, 2020

Why manners are benefited in the world

Why should students in schools be taught to use manners? Well first off, manners increase the rate of someone getting a job, because imagine going up and applying  for a job, using swear words and not thanking after you receive something then that is just going to lower the rate for you getting the job. Manners also help children becoming friends and creating strong and lasting friendships. Society would be a mess without manners, there would be people with free - for - all behaviors with more authoritative people messing around with the lower people. It would down the rate of people who care for others. Here's a tip, if you are nice at your home, then the attitude from your house will usually be carried to your school or workplace and the nice behaviors will begin to set at the place you work at. If you do this then you will also start being a role model for others around you. One saying goes - treat others how you want to be treated. If you follow that saying and treat others kindly then you will get those kind words and actions back, it will make everyone happy.

Imagine this, a world full of nasty people with a mind full of nasty things to blurt out at you. Did you know, that a research shows that if your child has rude things said to them then they carry those things onto other person, to get out he anger from them. Another research shows, that if you are driving with bad thoughts then it increases the rate of a car crash by 7 percent. It would be sad to see people die from having bad thoughts in their head, wouldn't it? Did you know, that having a good conversation that lasts for at least five minutes helps good things flow into your mind and change a red brain to a green brain. Also, showing proper etiquette and manners benefits your confidence quite a lot. 

One of the most common use of manners is the use of good hygiene. Some people wouldn't call this manners. But truly, it is. If you go bathroom, wash your hands, if you sneeze into your hands wash them. It is that simple. Their are other levels of hygiene, for instance, wear clothes that aren't old and holey, this shows signs of respect to others. Even making sure you don't have bad breath is using your manners. It makes you more pleasant to be around.

Here are 3 general tips to keeping the world a more pleasant place.

1. Don't talk while others are talking - If you talk over others it shows that you don;t care for what they say, even if you really don't care, show your respect by looking at them and not talking to the person beside you. In some cases it is alright to do this, for example - you are having a conversation with someone, and the person beside you is also having a conversation with another person that doesn't involve you. But make sure you keep your voice down. 

2. Realize your mistakes - If you accidentally hurt someone mentally or physically, don't just walk away, make sure you check that they are OK. If you do it on purpose, you need to think for a moment and out yourself in the victims shoes. How would you feel if you do it, Once you have had a think then go and apologize. Never walk away from mistakes. Own up to them. 

3. Keep negative opinions to yourself - If you have any negative thoughts or things to say about someone, keep them to yourself, because in many cases it hurts the person to know what you have to say. Think before you speak or will have to face up to the consequence. No one will want you to say bad things about them. Don't even say them to someone else behind the victims back. You could write them in a book and keep the thoughts and opinions to yourself. 

Try and see the funny side of things when they go wrong, it helps everyone realize that things do go wrong sometimes and people do make mistakes. Manners con make you into a better person, and the world into a better place, so try them for yourself. See if it helps your well being.

I hope this advice helps you!!



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